Saturday, July 5, 2025

Respecting the Good in People

The Concept of Respect

Some of the simplest and most meaningful things we can offer others are signs of respect—respect for their personhood, their lives, their experiences, and their choices. Respect is a cornerstone of understanding and a way to honor the unique paths others have taken. We can respect both cultures and professions, while recognizing the important distinction between the two.

For example, I have deep respect for people from different cultures because, at our core, we all share the same fundamental human experiences. Despite cultural differences, we are part of the same human story—and that shared reality connects us.

I also hold great respect for certain professions and the individuals who dedicate themselves to their work. I admire members of the military for their service to their country, and I appreciate the sacrifices made by those in public service—such as police officers, social workers, and others who commit their lives to the well-being of society. That respect, however, does not extend to individuals who abuse their roles or fail to act with integrity. While we can respect the person, we are not obligated to respect harmful choices.

One may also hold respect for religious leaders, regardless of the specific faith. Encouraging others to live by a higher moral code, promoting peace, and working toward a vision of a better world—what some might call “heaven on earth”—are noble aims. At their best, religious traditions draw people together and foster compassion, depending on how individuals interpret and live out those beliefs.

Respect for others begins with respect for oneself. When we honor others, we affirm our own sense of value. We may not always agree with someone’s choices or beliefs, but we can still respect their life and their right to make those choices. Respect is about recognizing the inherent worth of every individual. Even in disagreement, we can judge from a place of understanding rather than ignorance.

Let me also say this: the world is not perfect, and it is inhabited by imperfect people. These people often make short-sighted decisions—but we can learn. When we read the works of both secular and religious thinkers from centuries past, we find that many of the same questions and reflections persist today. Life has always been about human connection and seeking meaning in our everyday existence. Respect gives us the space to embrace our differences and discover purpose in our shared diversity.

Ultimately, respect is about honor—honoring the dignity and humanity of others. Only those who respect themselves can truly extend that same regard to others, because they are secure enough to accept differences without feeling threatened. A lack of self-respect often makes it difficult to treat others with genuine care. You can recognize respectful people by how they treat those around them. Wealth, power, or status are never required to practice the simple but profound principle of respect.

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