It’s Thanksgiving—a time when families and friends come together to appreciate each other’s presence. As I reflect on this holiday and its significance to our country, I’m reminded that it carries a complex history. People experience this day through many different lenses, and it’s important to recognize the mix of emotions it brings. We can give thanks for what is good while also acknowledging, and committing to improve, what has been painful or unjust.
I’m not an expert on Thanksgiving, but I try to think things through. I know many Native Americans, people from various cultures, and those from my own. When I look back at history, I take certain lessons from it—lessons that others may interpret differently. Each of us sees the past through our own perspective.
One way to understand Thanksgiving might be like this:
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There is a lot more to this story. Representing the importance of learning about history and each other. Our holidays have purpose as cultural and historical lessons. |
People fled their homeland seeking refuge from corruption and persecution, hoping to build a better life. They arrived in a land already inhabited by people with their own backgrounds, cultures, and spiritual beliefs. The Pilgrims’ journey teaches us what religious persecution can drive people to do, and why freedom of belief matters.
Without the help of Native Americans, many more settlers would likely have perished. Native cultures often held deep respect for nature and spirituality. From what I’ve read and experienced, much of their belief system centers on honoring all living things (My spirituality has changed somewhat from their knowledge. I respect the environment and if I hunt I treat the animal as if it has a type of soul and rights.). It’s worth wondering how differently history might have unfolded if society had embraced that reverence for nature and incorporated that with what is good in ours.
Religion isn’t “right” or “wrong” in a scientific sense; rather (this is why it is often left to the spiritual realm), religions are spiritual narratives meant to guide us and help us find meaning. Each one offers a unique lens through which to view the world. The lens we choose shapes what we see and how we make sense of life (A little like a stacked lens as what we see is programmed in the brain and culture and religion are taught to us since childhood. Change the lenses around and see something different. Culture and what we recall. While I'm using as a metaphor you can sort of get the point in the movie on the Constitution called National Treasure with Nicholas Cage where Benjamin Franklin's glasses helped them find the treasure by seeing different things/patterns that were not able to be seen without them. Was the treasure the Knight Templar's gold or was it the Constitution? That is an individual choice and perspective.).
When we take time to learn about other people—their beliefs, ways of life, and values—we start to see more clearly. Just as combining lenses sharpens a view, understanding multiple perspectives expands our insight our lenses change. So while Thanksgiving is a time for family and gratitude, it’s also an opportunity to acknowledge the pain caused when people failed to recognize the inherent worth of others. Things might have been different if there had been more willingness to learn.
Our nation was built on principles like freedom of religion and freedom of speech, ideals that people have worked to uphold from the beginning (Sadly, some have not and some will never. It is not in them.). Over time, we’ve learned from both our successes and our failures in pursuit of a better future. Yet there are those that still believe their “rightness” must come at the expense of others.
True synergy and enlightenment—blending knowledge to create something new—happens when we take time to learn, reflect, and be thankful for what has been done well, while committing ourselves to doing better. Be grateful for what you have today and for what past generations have passed down, both the good and the difficult. This legacy is ours to shape. The future has not yet been defined. Let’s ensure we honor our duty to each other and continue striving toward the promise of what we can become (I have called this over the horizon thinking.)
I found these pieces below and hope they provide a balanced perspective. If you are looking for my opinion I can only say that I have learned something from each culture I have come into contact with and believe we all exist for a reason. I am thankful for the good people in my life and am thankful for the opportunity to reach another day towards a new rung (for myself and others). There is no right or wrong but just a philosophical discussion. What is your perspective?
"Be civil to all; serviceable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none." -Benjamin Franklin
Happy Thanksgiving!
Thanksgiving History
Religion of the Pilgrims
The Pilgrims and Natives
The Dark History of Thanksgiving