Using Color to Pair Rooms to Impressionists Art (Chewy Agrees to Everything for a Treat)

Maybe you're looking to spruce up a room or create a gallery wall that makes people say, "Wow!" instead of, "Oh... was that on clearance?" Pairing artwork is actually easier than it looks, and I've been reading up on different ways to do it. It's been helpful because I've collected a lot of photographs and paintings over the years, and at some point I should probably stop stacking them in closets and actually hang a few.

(Illustrative Only)
Give this guy 
a treat and he 
will agree to everything. 
Think about
colors and pairing. 

I also sell some of my artwork from time to time. I'm not expecting to become the next Picasso or retire on painting seagulls, but it's a fun hobby. Honestly, one of the best lessons I've learned is this: if you enjoy doing something, keep doing it. Who cares what everyone else thinks? Art is one of the most subjective things in the world.

I've walked through galleries and stared at a painting with a $2,000 price tag thinking, "Did someone accidentally leave that there after painting the living room?" Then I've created pieces that I thought belonged in the recycling bin. Other times I've finished something, stepped back, and thought, "You know what? That's actually pretty good." Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder—and sometimes in the eye of the person holding the credit card.

One of the simplest ways to pair artwork is by using color. Pick a dominant color—maybe blue, green, purple, or pink—and then choose other pieces that share enough of that color to create a visual connection. They don't have to match perfectly; they just need enough in common that your eye naturally groups them together.

This is one reason Impressionist artwork works so well in home décor. It's often driven by mood, light, and color rather than precise detail. If you're trying to create a calm room, a cozy space, or something bright and energetic, selecting artwork with a consistent color palette can help tie everything together.

And don't think you have to buy all your artwork from one artist. Mix and match. Pair paintings with photography, woven tapestries, wood accents, or even coordinate them with your wall color, furniture, or area rug. The goal isn't perfection—it's creating a space that feels like you.

Besides, if someone asks whether your gallery wall was professionally curated, just smile confidently and say, "Absolutely." There's no need to mention that your design process consisted of moving pictures around seventeen times and asking the dog (Mine is Chewy and as as long as I give him a treat he will agree to anything.) for a second opinion.

(*BTW The title was designed specifically.)

The Colored Sky Acrylic 8"X10"

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Deep Water Rescue for Lifeguards (Video)

Underwater rescue is an important skill that lifeguards develop through their certification and continued training. Lifeguards should always be willing to learn, ask questions, and seek guidance from those with more experience. Often, conversations with experienced professionals can provide valuable insights and help improve skills. Keeping up-to-date and learning is important for personal mastery and in many ways for the people you are helping. 

The video below discusses some of the techniques and considerations involved in underwater rescue. Having open-water certification can be especially beneficial because it requires additional skills and practical testing beyond what is typically required for pool certification. Ocean lifeguard certification is another level entirely (...thinking about it and the physical requirements. 500 meters Mission Beach 10 minutes for SD lifeguards as well as sprinting.), with additional challenges and skills that many lifeguards may consider pursuing in the future.

This video reflects how I approach learning. I may take a class or train with others, but I also believe in continually expanding my knowledge base. Regardless of the activity, I enjoy learning something new each time I revisit a topic. Even watching this video again, I picked up a few additional ideas and techniques that I can apply.

There is always a need for lifeguards, both locally and in other communities. While lifeguarding is more of a hobby and a community activity for me, it is still something that must be taken seriously because people’s safety depends on it. At the same time, there is something rewarding about being outdoors, enjoying the fresh air, staying active, and having another reason to maintain physical fitness.

I also have certifications as a fitness trainer and yoga instructor. If you are interested in affordable virtual fitness training, feel free to reach out. It is something I do on the side as a hobby, and I also try to donate some of the proceeds to charity. muradabel (at) g mail (dot) com. 

In the meantime, check out the video below. It provides a great overview of many of the skills we learn as lifeguards and offers useful information that can help continue improving our abilities.

Leadership With Self-Promtion or Leadership on Skill and Merit

Leadership is critical to the success of any organization. From experience we may learn that always those who rise into leadership positions are not always the most skilled, the most qualified, or those with the greatest leadership potential. In many cases, the people who advance most quickly are those who are highly effective at promoting themselves (We should be a touch skeptical of self promoters.)

This can create risks for an organization. Self-promoting leaders may prioritize their own interests over the organization's mission, values, or long-term success. They often focus on achieving short-term performance metrics that make them appear successful, even when those decisions may create long-term challenges. By the time those long-term consequences become apparent, they may have already moved on to another organization after leaving behind strained relationships or unresolved issues. Still, they may take on another leadership position at another organization because we did not pause to think about their leadership values.

Whether you are selecting leaders for a business, nonprofit, government agency, or another organization, it is important to look beyond confidence and self-promotion. Evaluate candidates based on their integrity, ability to develop others, commitment to the organization's mission, and evidence of sustained long-term success. A thoughtful recruitment and selection process can help identify leaders with genuine potential while reducing the risk of placing individuals in leadership roles who may ultimately do more harm than good.

Don't Confuse Ambition With Effective Leadership

• People with higher leadership ambition tend to rate themselves as more effective leaders than others rate them.
• Managers, peers, and direct reports did not view highly ambitious leaders as more effective than less ambitious leaders.
• Ambition increases the likelihood of pursuing leadership positions, but it does not predict leadership effectiveness.
• Organizations should use objective measures, such as 360-degree feedback, to identify and develop effective leaders rather than relying on confidence or self-promotion.
• Expanding leadership opportunities beyond self-selected candidates can help organizations discover talented individuals who may not actively seek leadership roles. 

Kinni, T. (2025, January 15). Don't confuse ambition with effective leadership. Stanford Graduate School of Business. https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/insights/dont-confuse-ambition-effective-leadership⁠

It's Not the Physics of the Club but My Swing That is At Fault (All in the Hips)

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It's All in the Hips!

 The weather finally cooled off from the recent 100-degree heat, although the smoky skies still made it feel like we were golfing inside yesterday's campfire. About half our group looked outside, saw the conditions, and wisely retreated. The rest of us decided to embrace questionable decision-making and squeezed in a quick nine holes. The ball looked like a comet coming out of the smoke. 

Despite the wheezing, hacking, water eyes and a few with old Covid masks it turned out to be a great morning. I actually finished with a better score than the few players I was paired with, which felt like a personal victory. I'm not an elite golfer—I'd call myself average, maybe average-plus on a good day. I know the fundamentals well enough to hold my own with most groups, and the more I play, the more consistent I become.

Golf and Farm field
Very nice picture
after a few days
rain. You can see
the smoke in the background.

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It also got me thinking about what really improves your game. For me, it comes down to repetition. Practice the same swing over and over until it becomes second nature. Then get out on the course and keep playing. Don't hit harder but just do the same swing and let the distance come on its own.

Of course, golfers love to blame—or credit—the equipment. There's always someone convinced that a new $800 driver will magically shave ten strokes off their score. Better clubs can certainly help, but they won't fix a slice. They might just send the ball farther... into the next fairway.

The real improvement comes from developing a consistent swing. Once your mechanics are solid, quality equipment can help you get a little more distance and performance. But the swing comes first.

And while I may never be competing on the PGA Tour, I do have a fitness trainer certification. If you're looking to improve your overall health, strength, or fitness, I can help with that through virtual coaching. Just send me a message, and we'll talk. muradabel (at) gmail (dot) com

After all, whether it's golf or fitness, success usually comes down to the same formula: practice the fundamentals, stay consistent, and don't expect expensive equipment to do all the work.

If you want to learn more about the science of the golf club. 

Leadership Through Strengths and Self-Awareness

Leadership is essential to the success of any organization or group, whether it's a business, sports team, military unit, government, or even a group of friends. Effective leaders help turn ideas into action while bringing people together around a common purpose.

According to Gallup, leadership can be viewed through four key domains: Executing, Influencing, Relationship Building, and Strategic Thinking. Executing is about making things happen and turning plans into results. Influencing involves gaining support and motivating others, since meaningful accomplishments rarely happen alone. Relationship Building focuses on creating trust and strong networks that enable collaboration. Strategic Thinking allows leaders to evaluate options, anticipate challenges, and make informed decisions.

The good news is that leadership can be developed. Growth begins with self-awareness rather than simply doing more, achieving more, or meeting additional performance metrics. Understanding your natural strengths, along with the skills you've developed through experience, provides a foundation for becoming a more effective leader. When we recognize and build upon those strengths, we are better equipped to solve important problems, inspire others, and make meaningful contributions to our organizations, communities, and society as a whole.

Effective Leadership: What Makes a Good Leader

• Effective leadership begins with self-awareness by understanding and applying your natural strengths rather than trying to imitate another leadership style.
• Strong leaders create clear goals, communicate expectations, and align teams around a shared purpose while fostering trust and engagement.
• Gallup identifies four primary leadership domains—Executing, Influencing, Relationship Building, and Strategic Thinking—and encourages leaders to leverage their dominant strengths.
• Seven essential leadership skills contribute to effectiveness: building relationships, developing people, leading change, inspiring others, thinking critically, communicating clearly, and creating accountability.
• Leadership effectiveness improves when leaders focus on developing others, strengthening team culture, and consistently applying their strengths to improve organizational performance.

Gallup. (n.d.). Effective leadership: What makes a good leader. CliftonStrengths. https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/356072/how-to-be-better-leader.aspx

Training, Tactics, Practice, and Preparedness: Keys to Firefighter Effectiveness

Firefighting requires continuous learning. As a part-time volunteer firefighter, I can't make every call because I'm not always in town, but I do my best to attend incidents, training, and department activities whenever I can. Our department trains every week, and we're fortunate to be one of the better-trained departments in the area. Even so, there's always room for self-study.

The other day, while I had some free time, I grabbed a rope and practiced tying knots. I realized I'd forgotten a couple of them, so I reviewed the techniques and practiced until they came back. Skills like these can fade if you don't use them, and you never know when you'll need them on the fireground.

The article below offers practical advice on tactical changes that can improve firefighter safety and highlights lessons learned from real-world experience. It's a worthwhile read for anyone interested in the fire service.

If you're interested in making a tax-deductible corporate or individual donation to support an outstanding local fire department, we'd greatly appreciate it. We're fortunate to have 12–14 young firefighters joining our ranks, which is something many departments struggle to achieve. Donations help provide training, equipment, and other resources that keep both firefighters and our community safer. If you'd like more information, let me know, and I'll connect you with the appropriate people.

Tactical Changes That Can Save Firefighters' Lives

Modern fire science supports updated firefighting tactics that improve firefighter safety.

Control ventilation and airflow to reduce rapid fire growth.

Conduct a 360-degree size-up before committing crews.

Coordinate fire attack using evidence-based strategies.

Promote a safety culture that values communication and continuous learning.

Salameh, N. J. (2016). Tactical changes that can save firefighters' lives. Firefighter Close Calls. https://www.firefighterclosecalls.com/tactical-changes-that-can-save-firefighters-lives-2/⁠�

Research on the Bystander Effect and How it Relates to the Allegory of the Clan

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Allegories and stories
help us learn about 
certain values and when warranted
by merit a deeper truth.
You can't buy
a pass to the 
cave but must 
get down there and back
up on your own. 
The poor and wealthy 
are equal in this 
journey.

(Sorry being philosophical.😬)

The bystander effect provides an important lens for understanding our Allegory of the Clan, a hypothetical philosophical thought experiment inspired by Plato's Allegory of the Cave. As we explore the story, we examine how individuals, groups, and institutions respond to ethical challenges and how deeper understanding can help build stronger, robust, cohesivie communities.

In the hypothetical scenario, a minority individual is targeted, whistleblowers face retaliation, and unethical behavior is tolerated or rewarded. As more victims emerge, a broader pattern of wrongdoing becomes visible. The story illustrates that harmful systems often persist not only because of those committing the misconduct, but also because many others witness it, recognize it is wrong, and fail to act.

This reflects the bystander effect. When responsibility is shared among many people, individuals may assume someone else will intervene. Fear of retaliation, loyalty to social groups, and prejudice can also discourage action, allowing injustice to continue. In many cases engaging in victim blaming and other fault mitigating behaviors because it requires no meaningful insight or change (Think for a moment how easy it is to do and why as a tool it is sometimes applied. Alternatively you can think about why one shouldn't apply it. There are motivations both ways.). We sometimes find later poor behaviors were well known.

The Allegory of the Clan encourages people to think beyond their immediate social networks and make ethical decisions based on their values rather than group pressure. Its purpose is to promote unity, accountability, respect for human and civil rights, and collaboration around shared goals. Ultimately, the lesson is simple: when we recognize the value in every person, we strengthen our communities and ourselves. You have a responsibility to create positive connections and interactions (Keep that concept in mind as we explore the social and economic side of hate and corruption.)

*The Allegory of the Clan is a hypothetical, philosophical, theoretical thought experiment so take with a grain of salt. 

The Bystander Effect: Why People Sometimes Fail to Help in Emergencies

• The bystander effect is a psychological phenomenon in which individuals are less likely to help someone in need when other people are present because responsibility feels shared among the group.
• Three primary psychological mechanisms contribute to the effect: diffusion of responsibility, social influence (looking to others for cues), and pluralistic ignorance (assuming a situation is not an emergency because others remain passive).
• Research by Bibb Latané and John Darley demonstrated that as the number of bystanders increases, the likelihood of any one individual intervening generally decreases.
• The bystander effect can occur in many settings, including public emergencies, workplace situations, classrooms, and online environments where people assume someone else will respond.
• People can reduce the bystander effect by recognizing the phenomenon, accepting personal responsibility, and taking direct action rather than waiting for others to intervene.

The Decision Lab. (n.d.). Bystander effect. https://thedecisionlab.com/reference-guide/psychology/bystander-effect